tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post6840810184131965190..comments2024-03-02T19:41:53.236+07:00Comments on OYEN'S BLOG: She Become Sweet and Cuddly : Chapter 41Oyenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02923874792286361037noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-58030739149068345182022-12-04T02:29:35.769+07:002022-12-04T02:29:35.769+07:00LZZ is soo selfless. She deserved the best. Having...LZZ is soo selfless. She deserved the best. Having one person like her will give a big difference.<br />And branding YZY as rap*st infuriated me to the moon and back. Also having that stockholm syndrome in the novel tag, gosh mafe me think multiple times before reading this.2DSimphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07393187712532966502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-42270321162003478672021-06-26T13:47:47.054+07:002021-06-26T13:47:47.054+07:00I think everyone missed the point. Probably differ...I think everyone missed the point. Probably different culture. Never had QQ said Xiao Yuan reminded of that night. QQ called him accident, not product of r*pe. Why she didn't want the child had to do with society. A single mom had many inconvenience. Many job isn't available and really, people will look you the wrong way. That is why ZhenZhen said she will take the child. She opened her own restaurant, unlike QQ that planned to go iv job hunting. QQ reluctant also had to do not because job since she had it, but about marriage value of her sister. Many company too won't hire single mother, especially young single mother. QQ outlook is too young. That is why she didn't care if she gave birth and the child taken into the father family registration. Now the child won't be in their family registration and no inconvenience. She still didn't know pregnancy blue, post delivery blues and everything. I feel people too hung up on "r*pe". QQ felt the night unpleasant memory and Zeyan reminded her about it, not the baby. Why? Because when she remembered the night, she was reminded of the soft her. The betrayal and her own proactive action. That is a shameful self that she want to discard and forget. I bet what drive hee crazy later had to be the promise to divorce that is denied. That is why I said she is too young when she accepted the agreement carefreely.WorldLoverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01971346438837322676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-77315549010698346802021-06-07T17:16:42.263+07:002021-06-07T17:16:42.263+07:00I agree with KD 100%. This is what has been bother...I agree with KD 100%. This is what has been bothering me and you expressed everything itSaygohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03065081783156086424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-66870350581375018292021-06-07T17:06:10.322+07:002021-06-07T17:06:10.322+07:00Her hostility makes sense. The trauma she went thr...Her hostility makes sense. The trauma she went through took a mental toll. It's not an excuse to blame the child but I'm sure she shut down out of self preservation. YZ didn't help the situation. All of these things happened too fast and I'm surprised she had the strength to keep living. She didn't deal with the trauma at all. Marriage won't fix anything.She lost her bestfriend,her boyfriend, her dream and sense of selfSaygohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03065081783156086424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-31569816236686532142021-02-02T16:08:45.609+07:002021-02-02T16:08:45.609+07:00The baby is innocent, but she is too. Being a moth...The baby is innocent, but she is too. Being a mother is not just about getting pregnant and giving birth, it takes a lot to be a mother and no one is obliged to mother a child.<br />Let alone it was a child from a "rape".<br />It's not just about being upset, stubborn nor unreasonable anger. <br />The child was the remembrance of the most traumatic event of a rape victim. <br />No one has right to blame her for not wanting to raise the child. <br />She had taken the emergency contraception so she was technically never at fault. <br />Giving the baby for an adoption has always been the best solution for unavoidable pregnancy of a rape victim. <br />Moreover She was still a student for God sake.<br />The fact that she had agreed to give birth and give the child away to the father was already the biggest grace she could ever gave him. <br />Ye was sober, he didn't have to sleep with her. It was his hidden desire for her that led him to follow the animal instinct instead of sending her to the hospital. He was a man, n ex special force soldier at that so taking her by force to hospital was an easy feat, but he didn't do it. <br /> So he was not completely innocent in this case.<br />He had his own selfish reason too. <br />And then he promised to set her free after giving birth but he didn't do it, he didn't accept the divorce so... He was again at fault. <br />No one has right to force her living a life she doesn't want. <br />Don't think that I can say this because I am heartless and have no motherhood instinct... <br />I do 100%-ly. I have my own little princess and love her so much, but I still do think that no body have the right to force a woman to live a life she doesn't want nor become a mother when she obviously declared she didn't want to and had never did anything by herself to be pregnant.<br />No one has the right to tell her that marrying a man who raped her was good just because he is an excellent bachelor. <br />Love can't be forced.<br />The fact that she took the contraception and the promise Ye gave her before marrying her are two crucial points here. <br />It is so fortunate and i am happy too that her amnesia had given her a the opportunity to forget her traumatic experience and open up her heart to a new man in her life. <br />But it could have gone different way. <br />She might have had to suffer a heartache for life if he didn't set her free. <br />5 years is long enough to see if the person wants to love or not. <br />I feel pity for the child and a bit for the father at this point but I still think that we shouldn't judge Qing Qing for her attitude.<br /> KDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12444865049582981445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-4876897426735684572020-12-18T19:38:16.642+07:002020-12-18T19:38:16.642+07:00remembering how yz said lqq was only sad that'...remembering how yz said lqq was only sad that's why she's angry to their child. good lord<br />iuunzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15468090871296159176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-82822933264240848222020-07-31T14:41:07.941+07:002020-07-31T14:41:07.941+07:00she's a strong woman. she had gone through so ...she's a strong woman. she had gone through so much at once so it's understandable why she can changed so much and hate her new family though they're very kind with her. she's too stressed out and depressed. it's a good thing she had amnesia for awhile cus she can start a brand new lifeAynahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10557010352389304024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-2210878574824227892020-04-18T11:56:13.489+07:002020-04-18T11:56:13.489+07:00Lol, what contraceptive pills, it's just a vit...Lol, what contraceptive pills, it's just a vitamin for my child..<br />Maybe it's like that (*≧艸≦)Oyenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02923874792286361037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-72067820202538387852020-04-18T11:17:08.165+07:002020-04-18T11:17:08.165+07:00"No wonder the contraceptive pills couldn'..."No wonder the contraceptive pills couldn't evade you. It turned out that you had such a powerful father."<br />I couldn't help but burst out laughing because of this.LunaRainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17466976790074387626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-90509908036349069582020-04-17T22:53:51.528+07:002020-04-17T22:53:51.528+07:00Hmm, I think YZY just don't want to miss his o...Hmm, I think YZY just don't want to miss his only chance to marry LQQ..<br />You're welcome~Oyenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02923874792286361037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-22225931203920827682020-04-17T22:53:03.746+07:002020-04-17T22:53:03.746+07:00I think LQQ is a strong girl, after all that happe...I think LQQ is a strong girl, after all that happened she still can move on, although in a bad way..<br />If I got caught in that situation I think.. I might go to mental hospital =w=Oyenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02923874792286361037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-85393931027894836802020-04-17T22:51:48.994+07:002020-04-17T22:51:48.994+07:00LQQ shut herself in her prison, and she doesn'...LQQ shut herself in her prison, and she doesn't want to get hurt again. So, she kept away from other things that actually good for her :(<br />She also can't accept YZY goodness at all T_T<br />There will be 3-4 more chapters for the flashback..Oyenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02923874792286361037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-82076950511021338062020-04-17T22:48:55.460+07:002020-04-17T22:48:55.460+07:00You're welcome xDYou're welcome xDOyenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02923874792286361037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-310807596271561992020-04-17T22:48:41.602+07:002020-04-17T22:48:41.602+07:00You're welcome ^^You're welcome ^^Oyenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02923874792286361037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-6849884421398013972020-04-17T22:48:26.905+07:002020-04-17T22:48:26.905+07:00Yes, that's how the got married. You're we...Yes, that's how the got married. You're welcome!Oyenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02923874792286361037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-25262683369217232532020-04-17T13:19:48.697+07:002020-04-17T13:19:48.697+07:00Ikr. Ugh I hope the next chapter is about her waki...Ikr. Ugh I hope the next chapter is about her waking up from coma and things turn out better :'Helleboreshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11969476869561870966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-33468946817204796692020-04-11T15:28:32.953+07:002020-04-11T15:28:32.953+07:00Ugh, I have mixed feelings about YZY's actions...Ugh, I have mixed feelings about YZY's actions...<br /><br />Anyway, thanks for the chapter.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18383948806143871158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-45091591160509528642020-04-11T15:20:42.337+07:002020-04-11T15:20:42.337+07:00Poor girl..I don't know what to feel anymore. ...Poor girl..I don't know what to feel anymore. I now understand why she was like that, but never towards the innocent baby. It was a series of unfortunate events and I can't even imagine what I would do in that situation. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18183588209473390662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-25737870462659107802020-04-11T14:38:02.688+07:002020-04-11T14:38:02.688+07:00This is all so depressing. I feel sorry for YZY. ...This is all so depressing. I feel sorry for YZY. I understand LQQ being upset, but she hardened her heart to the point that goodness was kept out as well as the bad.D2Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07374465069395396071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-81364447448660371132020-04-11T13:29:27.264+07:002020-04-11T13:29:27.264+07:00Thank you for update.. :-)Thank you for update.. :-)Ariefyanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08739771278725380894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257116854364522428.post-5513669028696120212020-04-11T12:27:57.310+07:002020-04-11T12:27:57.310+07:00Now we know how they got married. Thank you so muc...Now we know how they got married. Thank you so much for your hard work!Abbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13020723745125789942noreply@blogger.com